vanity claire
kind, giving, loving woman who will not put up with your shit • graphic designer • white/cis/bi she/hers pronouns •

zazzle-poetry:

i see you

gracieofthecentury replied to your post: “I have worn black lipstick for like four days in a row and I feel…”:

You are so inspiring

I honestly believe that everyone in the world should try black lipstick at least once

why the fuck do other people’s actions on their own time in their own space affect you even a little bit????

I’m not talking about neo-nazism or bein a TERF or something which does spill over into the rest of your life and does harm to lots of people, I mean fucking people getting pumpkin spice lattes and listening to pop music and wearing Nike shorts and shit like

how does another person’s starbucks order affect you at all? how do their duckface selfies affect you? if someone decides to go all-in and personally emulate Paris Hilton ca. 2003 WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE

take care of your own life and let other people do what makes them feel good like god damn

dykeamethyst:

smallvoidthing:

incompleteicarus:

Do you ever ‘wtf white people’ even though you are a white people.

Even white people are tired of white peoples shit tbh.

jsesus fucking christ laurelai, dont pull this shit

we dont get to distance ourselves from whiteness and mock it so we can feel like one of the good ones

white ppls shit is OUR shit

white ppls shit is shit perpetuated BY US, by virtue of being white, no matter how much we fight against white supremacist systems

WARNING FOR THOSE WITH OR RECOVERING FROM EATING DISORDERS, ESPECIALLY ONES WITH OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE HABITS, WHO ARE THINKING OF DOWNLOADING THE IOS 8 UPDATE. PLEASE REBLOG.

frilton:

The new IOS8 update contains an app named Health which CANNOT BE DELETED.

The app allows you to choose which aspects of your health you choose to monitor, but available categories include “Body Measurements”, which includes body weight, and “Fitness”, which contains sections for calories consumed and calories burned. 

While this may be useful for those looking to monitor their fitness, it could be triggering and harmful to those suffering with or in recovery from eating disorders, especially in sufferers with obsessive compulsive tendencies they find it very hard to abstain from, such as calorie counting, body measuring and weighing.

Whilst of course the app cannot force you to use it, it cannot be deleted, so will be present within your apps and can be a source of feelings of temptation to record numbers and of guilt and judgement for not using the app.

If you personally feel you could not emotionally handle the presence of this app,  and it would be detrimental to your recovery, please do not download IOS8. I do not know if a new IOS can be avoided permanently (if anyone has any information on this please do add it to the post), but if it cannot then please use the time you have to prepare yourself for the app, and to reinforce reminders that you do not have to calorie count, you do not have to weigh yourself, you do not owe proof of exercise to anyone, person or app.

neon-taco:

It pains my heart to see big girls wear hoodies in 90+ degree weather. Take a sip of idgaf tea and dress for the weather unapologetically!

clarkins2 replied to your post: “on the one day Chris can sleep in in probably his whole teaching…”:

SettingsNotification CenterScroll to the bottomThere’s a toggle switch for itHope Chris feels better soon

BLESS YOU FRIEND OMG

#fbf to February 13, 2012 - we both look like babies and I had almost black hair. weird!

on the one day Chris can sleep in in probably his whole teaching career, and on top of that is sick and needs the sleep - two Amber alerts before 7 am to tell us something you could ascertain by looking out a window

…..I’m sure they probably helped people but

I wish there was a way you could silence your phone for those

ihatecispeople:

if the creator has to say “yeah this one vague line was refering to this character being gay” it doesnt count as representation. if it’s a punchline at the end of the movie, it doesn’t count as representation. if the writer announces it outside the work but never in the work it doesnt fucking count as representation

silversarcasm:

reminder to folks not to dress up as a ‘mental patient’ this halloween, mentally ill people are not costumes and the dehumanisation and abuse of us in hospitals is not something to be used for your amusement

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I have got to work on letting go of grudges man

forgiveness is one thing but grudges weigh you down

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